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This is the tumblr for my as-of-lately rarely updated blog, Pop Shot, a simpler place for me to drop off all the random thoughts in my brain and a dumping ground for every one of the amazing things I happen to find whilst meandering on the Internet- pictures, videos, songs, quotes, and websites that would otherwise languish in folders or on my browser's Favorites bar until I felt I could organize and post them "properly". Enjoy the unorganized mess!
Fucking disgusting this culture of “daddies” and “little girls” and how no one is willing to point out the pedophilic premeditation to the dynamic because obviously then we’re “shaming” people for their “harmless” desires. Please delete yourselves.
like why does literally no one seem to want to address what’s wrong with wanting to have sex with someone you are thinking of as and calling your little girl/someone you are thinking of as and calling your dad
I have long tried to live and let be, but it’s went from a few sightings to this being the dominant (no pun intended) trend … I swear, it’s all I ever see in the “bdsm” tag any more. And it seems to have moved away from ageplay, which, whether you think is worse or better, at least had a certain honesty in being like “hell yeah I wanna play with tropes of incest and age regression”. And then there’s the whole weird connotation it’s taken on- “I’m not a Dom, I’m a Daddy! I love and take care of my little girl.” As if being loving/caring/nurturing isn’t something a dominant does, too?
But seriously, the real indictment comes from a simple question: where are all the Mommies and little boys? If it’s so great and not heavily influenced by the infantilization of women/sexualization of girls that’s present in our society, you’d expect to see a nice big swath of men who wanted to enjoy this type of play, but it’s rare as hell.
I still wanna live and let live; I’m not about to go around telling people the way they play is wrong. But I will say it’s kind of shocking how fast DD/lg became popular …
i was reading about the actual people orange is the new black is based on, and i found something interesting
Piper Kerman (aka Piper Chapman) was openly queer (i think she identified as lesbian), and in fact her fiancee larry was the only man she ever dated
i just find it interesting and kind of disturbing that instead of portraying this, the show chose to make her “straight with a ~lesbian phase~” as they call it, aka bisexual with a strong preference (it seems) for men— as opposed to her real life sexuality in which she was much more strongly attracted to women.
now, i know that piper is supposed to be the character the audience “relates with,” or at least that’s what the show intends. but i find it kind of gross that they did that in part by changing around Piper’s sexuality so it was more geared towards heteronormativity/men
Still getting [generally well-meaning?] messages about that G.B.F. post on biphobia telling me that a dad laughing in the face of his son saying “I could be bi.” is so not an issue.
They just knew, you guys! Don’t you know that your peepin’ on your kid’s porn-surfing history totally overrides and negates his self-identification (or even just trying on/exploring various identities and labels)? And that the appropriate response is skeptical guffawing?
That “You got a real bright future behind you.” line in “Wiggle” sours the song for me.
I just wanna extol the wonders of big fat wiggling butts without thinking about Snoop telling girls their futures are backside-based.